You are changing everyday.....

True love. Is this a concept or a feeling? I don't know and I feel that most people are still unsure about it. I have never been able to define the word 'love'. From the days of childhood I have heard that one must love and take care of their family, relatives and friends. We love our families. We say that we even love our friends from the bottom of our hearts. Keeping that in picture, I have come across situations where I have said 'I love you' to my best friends in school. But at the same time, I hate it when they change over the spasm of time. This results from the change in priorities and I have found myself saying this to one of my childhood friend, 'you have changed a lot!' 

A deviation in the attitude conflicting with the one playing in our minds brings anger. Slowly I tried to come over it. But as I came over it, I sensed that my idea about the love I feel for my friends has changed. The feeling is still the same yet the perception has decided to take a new road. I realized that understanding people brings more love than merely celebrating parties and circulating gifts. A change in attitude will shoot out the bad feelings and replace the black hole with love. Can that be understood as 'true love?'

Break-ups have become a daily routine. People have also started celebrating break-ups. Ending up any relation has become so deep rooted and there are many who take it so delicately. I don't want to consider them as the insensitive ones because everyone's life is different and thousands of experiences and reasons encircle their current personalities. But sometimes it feels as if fights and conflicts have turned out to be the only solutions. Love blossoms and then continuous arguments blacken it deeply. Hatred comes out and the relationship ends. This is how I have imagined it. Why does the feeling vanish into thin air? Because of conflicts. How do the conflicts take shape? Because of egocentricity. Promises disappear into the realms of anger.

Earth has become a fusion of two worlds. One world is deeply marked by hatred. The other one by love. We all know fairly the reasons behind these two words. We watch news broadcast where wars between countries are being dramatically explained. We watch it, analyze it, criticize one of the nations and take side of another. If we find any one who is supporting the opposite nation, we start over a debate with that person as well. Small-sized fight has begun. We watch latest shows with our friends and later discuss about the actions made by the characters. Some actions reflected selfishness and in an animated discussion we say how truly we hate that character. But at the same time if we see our only friend mingling with some other guys, insecurity swells up in our minds and we start acting differently. We talk a lot about books whose stories depict unconditional love but if it's your birthday and your bf/gf didn't turn up with a gift, you turn red as a tomato.

In this entire article I tried to emphasize reality within the hemispheres of totality. I would not like to suggest any measures to improve relationships because that is totally up to you. You are your life's master and your actions will add colors in your life. Mere experiences with people or reading articles changes our attitude towards love and hatred. It gives birth to a new perception and things start changing. You are changing everyday. We all are changing everyday. It is an amazing feeling to view the world in this way.