'You are tall' or 'you are short' are the statements which could pinch your emotions. If you are tall and are complimented by peeps around, it will surely pinch your emotion of pride. You feel so good about yourself. But if it is the other way around, especially when your 'lack of height' is compared with a person with whom you got to raise your head up for a talk, then you know well what you are going through.
Nowadays people have given birth to a new perception towards a particular characteristic called height. It has been given a lot of importance and if you are 5 feet 5 inches or more than that, you are considered as 'perfect.' If you aren't, then they would either look at you with pity or mock you.
Physical appearances I feel has achieved the peak position of a pyramid that contains things inducing human satisfaction. Everyone wants to be more fairer, thinner(0 size!) or are even ready to indulge into a surgery for producing a 'dimple' on the cheek.
Seriously?!
In case of boys, some of them have the craze to develop abs, muscles and make their hair covered with gel to create artistic spikes and all this is done to appear 'cool.'
I clearly agree to the fact that looking neat and presentable is important. But before you indulge into any appearance changing missions, just ask yourself: why am I doing this? Is it because you love it or you want someone else to love it? The answer will immediately knock on the door of your consciousness.
The topic regarding the 'body size' is yet another interesting one. Being fit and healthy is very essential. Some are very thin because their body metabolism is very high and some become thin due to vigorous exercise. I personally feel that the tendency of letting your body indulge into exercise must be a call from the heart. If one is doing exercise just due to the external pressure, there is no fun in doing it.
Your colour, weight, body structure and height could be manipulated or changed to a certain extent. Being able to measure that extent would make you realise how much you can work on it. That hard-work will eventually provide you with sweet results and you will find yourself being happy about it. It would lead to less stress and dissatisfaction.
Be happy with how you are and how you look. Never feel insecure about your looks, because that is how you are meant to look. There are many products and cosmetics for the face, gym and other surgical treatments to make you thin ( I don't know the names of such treatments but I have heard that it exists) and heels to make you look taller. It is impossible to ignore such things in today's era because it has gained so much of popularity. But amidst all this, haven't you ever felt that the 'true you' is lost somewhere? The one that was beautifully crafted by the hands of nature?
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